Also

I know there are two ways at looking at a situation.

You can complain.
or
You can look at the bright side.

I'm trying to look at the bright side and I will do what I can. There's just no way I would ever ship off my baby to another country. I would never do that. I am just gonna take it the hard way and do what I can. I know it would be easier to have her stay with grandma and grandpa overseas, but I can't do that because I love my baby a lot. I want to be there to see her grow and learn. I don't understand how parents can do that. I just can't fathom.